Yes, anal toys are totally safe when you’ve prepared properly. That means using generous lashings of lube to help your toy slip in nice and easily. Remember to take things slow and steady when inserting anything into your anus. Start by warming up, using a well-lubed finger (or that of a partner) to stroke, rim and gently penetrate your anus before lowering yourself gently onto your anal toy. Cleaning your toys is also part of keeping butt play safe, so don’t forget to do it every time after use!

A thick, anal-appropriate lube is a must when using anal sex toys. The type of lube you use will depend on the material your butt plug or toy is made of plus your own personal preferences, but a good quality water-based anal lubricant should be compatible with any butt toy you own.